They say actions speak louder than words, I beg to differ, words are powerful in a number of reasons and can have a positive and a negative impact on someone’s … Continue Reading How are you? (The power of words)
There’s always different kinds of people. There’s seat holders, and there’s path finders. To keep the tradition and never deviate from what has always been done, seat holders are best … Continue Reading Seats and Paths
Deciding to move to the beat of you own drum.
A message which presents forgiveness as a gift of renewal to the forgiven and the forgiver.
Read the article below for the context of the interview or click here to go listen straight to the podcast. Human beings in South Africa, know Nelson Mandela as the … Continue Reading On Call to Human Navigation
Capes and masks have become synonymous with the heroes we see today. Partly that is the same in real life, because we never pay attention to our own heroes. Not … Continue Reading Sober Alcoholics: (Heroes are…)
In a world where no one seems safe anymore. We find that families, through the divinity that is culture and religion, are still conditioned to pass marriage down as a standard requirement. Even if this safety we hope to find in our homes seems to be compromised the most in our sacred spaces.
A single-parent home is no more broken than a full family unit where abuse is the order of the day – physical or otherwise.
Why am I only offered shelter at the sight of a burning house? What if I told you that I already know what a home on fire looks like? – The thoughts that linger well above the noise, of spectators, when partners start to feel the need to get out
You have a fan.
A wise man once said nothing.
My mom used to say “ungavuyisi iintshaba mntwan’am” (do not make enemies happy my child), every time I messed up. She would say similar stuff even when she pushes us … Continue Reading Succeed more to inspire: (stories for when we get successful)
Where I come from, when you are pissed off, but you do not wish to use your energy towards what pissed you off, you’d say “ayinamsebenzi’ and move on. Direct … Continue Reading Sober Alcoholics: (Unemployed)
I appreciate in this recollection of my early days, the awkward spots we find ourselves in from time to time because of what’s expected of us – even without our knowledge. The post entails the sharing of my youthful mishaps as I try to find the I in Family
Being handsome/beautiful has its perks. You are easy on everyone’s eye. Your environment will always have a glimpse of a smile. The tricky part is not knowing if everyone’s intention … Continue Reading Sober Alcoholics: (The Curse of a Pretty Face)
I’ve been reading a lot, about being caught in an emotionally strenuous state, be it relationships or tight spaces of any form that you may find yourself in. Where that state begins, the in-between, its ending and your part in the latter are important to note in order to move forward. Most of the platforms I come across stress that it is not your fault – that you are not the problem. I beg to differ though.
We are yet to see anyone who has never wanted to succeed. Some of us are still pursuing success, while some have given up. And of course, there are some … Continue Reading NO WINNERS: (stories for when we get successful)