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  • Rocky starts: (stories for when we get successful)

    Rocky starts: (stories for when we get successful)

    I like feeling safe. For that matter, I hate not knowing the next step. But, in life, there’s always uncertainty. So, I then to tend to hate a lot about life. That, on its own, requires a lot of energy. I guess it is why I tend to find myself always exhausted. I feel burned…

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  • Sober Alcoholics: The Voices

    Sober Alcoholics: The Voices

    I used to enjoy being on my own. Now, the silence is getting too loud. A pin drop terrifies me. There’s a storm coming, but I can’t convince anyone of that fact. I am calm on the surface, but beneath I’m paddling my life away. My knees are getting weaker each day, but I have…

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  • Sober Alcoholics; The Topic

    Sober Alcoholics; The Topic

    It is always difficult to explain. Especially when the heaviness is not reflected by the facial expression. And you always seem content, having all the answers and advice for everyone. For you, it’s always get up and go, “you’re supposed to be stronger than this.” And then, coping mechanisms get extreme, no one asks what’s…

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